And if you're raising your kids to believe that obedience is a virtue, be warned that when they hit adolescence, they'll start obeying someone other than you. Raise them to be stubborn and strong willed, and give them a strong sense of right and wrong, so they will be the nonconformists who say "stop" when things get out of hand in a group.

— commenter at Krebs on Security (of all places)